The Mother

    The Mother
    2003

    Synopsis

    A grandmother has a passionate affair with a man half her age, who is also sleeping with her daughter.

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    Cast

    • Anne ReidMay
    • Daniel CraigDarren
    • Peter VaughanToots
    • Steven MackintoshBobby
    • Cathryn BradshawPaula
    • Anna Wilson-JonesHelen
    • Danira GovićAu Pair
    • Izabella TelezynskaPolish Cleaner
    • Oliver Ford DaviesBruce
    • Jonah CoombesEstate Agent

    Recommendations

    • 100

      Los Angeles Times

      Every element of The Mother, directed by Roger Michell and written by Hanif Kureishi, fits together with perfection. The film's staging -- the way its settings create a world that allows for striking images that echo the psychological interplay of its people, the way in which every performance could not be any better -- is awe-inspiring.
    • 80

      The New York Times

      The screenplay bluntly faces anxieties of aging that are rarely voiced in the movies, and it is too hard-headed to offer comfy palliatives.
    • 80

      Salon

      Reid is stunning here.
    • 75

      New York Daily News

      Turns out to be a thoughtful, beautifully acted story about feeling alive before it's too late to feel anything.
    • 70

      Village Voice

      By turns expansive and astringent, The Mother is a portrait of a woman who, with the dazed courage of someone finally awakened to the world after decades of passivity and repression, keeps on walking.
    • 60

      TV Guide Magazine

      The film is marvelously acted all around, and the fact that there isn't a false note in the entire film is especially impressive given Kureishi's melodramatic contrivances and the fact that his characters are clichés whose behaviors are predictable at nearly every turn.
    • 60

      New York Magazine (Vulture)

      There is in The Mother a rich understanding of where old age takes you. Along with the myth that seniors don't have sex drives, the film dispels a larger one: that the years bring wisdom.
    • 50

      Variety

      A portrait of a contempo British family drifting apart because of generational differences, The Mother ends up an uneasy brew of too many competing tastes and themes.

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