A Secret Love

    A Secret Love
    2020

    Synopsis

    Amid shifting times, two women kept their decades-long love a secret. But coming out later in life comes with its own set of challenges.

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    Cast

    • Terry DonahueSelf
    • Pat HenschelSelf
    • Diana BolanSelf
    • Kim DonahueSelf
    • Tammy DonahueSelf
    • Jack XagasSelf
    • John ByrdSelf
    • Yvonne ZipterSelf
    • Marge SummitSelf
    • Tracy BaimSelf

    Recommendations

    • 88

      Chicago Tribune

      A Secret Love doesn't dwell much on queer history or activism, as laser-focused as it is on Terry and Pat, and the bond between them. The film beautifully illustrates each of their spirits: the sweet and bubbly Terry, always ready with a signed baseball card, and the stern and protective Pat, who only lets her guard down under duress, but wrote pages of love poems to Terry, and still asks for a morning kiss from her love.
    • 80

      Time

      When you look at the faces of the elderly Donahue and Henschel, even at their most frail, the young women within shine through. It’s enraging that society made them feel they had to hide. But their happiness is the ultimate triumph.
    • 75

      San Francisco Chronicle

      There’s a French saying, “In love, there is always one who kisses and one who offers the cheek,” and usually, the more interesting story belongs to the one doing the kissing. In A Secret Love, that’s Pat.
    • 75

      RogerEbert.com

      There is no crying in baseball, but you might just be reduced to a puddle of tears while watching Bolan’s film, which finally brings the duo’s love out of the shadows and gives it a long-overdue chance to shine.
    • 75

      IndieWire

      A Secret Love is full of the kind of gentle ribbing and loving chuckles one would expect from any adorable old couple, but it’s made all the more poignant by the fact of Pat and Terry’s trailblazing personal histories.
    • 75

      The Associated Press

      A Secret Love is guaranteed to pull at your heartstrings. It might be the quarantine or it might just be effective storytelling, but a scene near the end of the family coming together — not even a sad scene — left this reviewer in tears and I’m willing to bet I won’t be the only one.
    • 70

      Variety

      At once a misty-eyed romance and a harsh depiction of the practical and emotional challenges of giving up independent living, A Secret Love isn’t subtle in its Kleenex-clutching tactics — as you’d expect from a project bearing the imprint of TV titan Ryan Murphy — but it’s certainly effective.
    • 70

      The Hollywood Reporter

      Fans of queer cinema, "A League of Their Own" or just good old-fashioned love stories will find much to celebrate in A Secret Love, including a profound wedding scene that rivals any of the nuptials in cinematic history. As it turns out, there is crying in baseball.

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    • Danka S. Kojić